Am I the only man that wants to save sex for marriage?
posted Sunday,
6:03 pm
I’m 18 and obviously never had sex before, I’ve put a lot of though into it, and think it would be best to save that special moment for marriage ?
Are there any other guys here that agree with me ?
No I’m not religious nor am I crazy, I’m just stating my opinion…
Girls what would you think of a man wanting to save sex before marriage ? Would you marry a virgin ?
Best Regards
Jordan
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i think thats sexy to wait
i would completely respect a guy who was a virgin probably more than one who wasn’t
congrates and stick to your morals
I waited, and I’m glad I did. I hope your future wife waits for you too.
thats good don’t be like other stupid guys
Hey Jordan, I’m 18 too. I also practice abstinence. That’s the best gift you can give to your wife on wedding day – your virginity.
I think that you are smart to wait. I would like a guy like that- to me thats a person who respects girls
I’m not a guy,but I completely agree with you.Save sex for marriage! You’re going in the right direction buddy.
well i think you are one of the few non religious men who feel that way but id have to disagree with you, i feel as soon as you are ready, you may have sex with someone you are comfortable with
and i am not saying your opinion is crap… its your choice I’m just sharing my point of view on it
In my theory of ‘honesty is the best policy’, I would have to say no, I would not marry a virgin.
I am 26 and have been with inexperienced men, and it is not a good time at all. Though it is not a HUGE part, sex is in fact a part of a healthy relationship and if you are not compatible in that area, things are not going to work out very well.
i think it’s really sweet, i wouldn’t do it myself but i admire you for doing it
no your not im a girl and i want to save my virginity for a speical time which is marriage
That’s your choice of course. Personally, I wouldn’t marry a virgin (or date one…but then I’m 42). Nor would I date someone who didn’t want to have sex until after marriage…that’s something I prefer to have as part of our dating relationship (we may not ever marry). I don’t want to wait until I’ve said "I do" to find out whether or not we’re a good match in that area…
Sex is a gift to be shared between two married people. You are letting your partner down by having sex with someone else who is not your spouse before marriage (hopefully before a real relationship!)
If you really wanted to, however, you could have sex when you are engaged. It is a way to strengther your relationship even more. Just be sure BOTH of you are ready for it!
That’s great.
Staying virgin till marriage is like presenting a gift wrapped in beautiful ribbons. Otherwise, it is like giving a gift to someone that has already been opened.
What would you like for yourself? Well, me a virgin boy and want to remain so until I marry the girl of my dreams. Not only I want this, but my religion, Islam, also disapproves of premarital sex.
YEAH! Girls all want that kind of man! They all have to be treated with care.
I think it’s a good idea, but I personally might not like it so much. I agree that sex is part of a good relationship. You don’t want to get married and then have a crappy wedding night because you’re so inexperienced and it’s not fun.
I’d wait for love in a relationship, not a ring.
I am not against it, but there could be one problem. My mom got married out of highschool to her sweet heart and they had both waited till they were married to make love. That was a problem though because they found out that sexually they did not connect. They ended up divorcing very shortly after. My mom always taught me to wait till im in love, not married because no matter how much love you have for the person, you might not connect in bed. So she always wanted me to make sure I married some one that I could have good sex with!
i think that is really smart
I think that is a great decision. To be honest, even though I didn’t have nearly as much sex as some of my friends before I got married I did have my fair share. There were several times that I wished that I had waited until marriage for sex (especially when I was dating my wife). However now that I am married I must admit that my views have changed. While I love being married and wouldn’t cheat, I do sometimes wish that I had indulged in more sexual experiences before getting married. But really I think that just comes from hearing about others experiences and thinking, wow that would have been fun haha. If you feel in your heart that you should wait for marriage then by all means stick to it.
I don’t know how the heck you pull it off… I’m usually all over her by the 2nd date!
DO keep in mind that sex, although on the surface doesn’t seem like anything more than rubbing your privates together, does go a lot more deep rooted, so don’t beat yourself up if the first time isn’t as good as you’d expect… Almost every guy on earth will ‘release’ too soon on their first attempt, but let yourself relax and try, try again, preferably within the same hour.
I guess if I was in love I’d marry a virgin. It wouldn’t be the best circumstance though only because I’m not a virgin so I would feel weird.
I’m sure there are other guys that are waiting until marriage.
I congratulate you and I am a 23 year old virgin myself. It is hard and you may have girls leave you because you wont wait either but that okay cause they didnt deserve you anyway. The BIBLE states Sex was meant for marriage and even though you arent doing that for a religious reason I am still proud of you and dont let anyone change your mind. Sex aint everything and for all we know you can still do it with someone and it may not be what you thought. Besides we are all gonna get old and stuff gonna sag so dont worry about what people say .just do you.
I would definetly marry a virgin. Im a 17 year old girl and I also plan to stay a virgin until I am married. It is a very smart idea to save yourself for the one that you truly love. I really hope that you are not the only guy that wants to save himself for marrige.
Jacinda