I found out a week ago that my wife of 7 years is having an affair with a co worker. I have suspected it but she has denided everything. He left a message on her cell phone is how i found out. Then she has came clean. The day after Christmas she tells me that she is moving out and wants to call it quits. We have 2 children toghether and she has 1 prior to us but he is still my son. i want to save my marriage even though she doesn’t. She is still seeing him and we are living together for another 6 weeks til she has money to move out. I have a little bit of time but unsure on what to do to make her see that she should stay. He have a beautiful home, great family, we don’t fight, money is not a problem. Some friends have said she is having a mid life crisis. She is 29 seeing a 20 year old kid who lives with his mom. Any advice would help. I love my wife and want to see her threw this. We have a good relationship. Feeling lost and confused any advice
also, she refuses any counceling. We have had many talks and the things that have gone wrong in our marriage . i told her that real happiness is right behind the door if she was willing to take a peak, if she likes what she see’s, open the door a little more and maybe one day step in. i’ve been showing her that they are being fixed, she says she is just tired and thinks leaving is the best. We agreed to wait to file for divorce until this summer. She is planning on getting an apartment 5 blocks away so we can share the kids.
Need help to save my marriage?
March 10th, 2010Are my parents going to divorce? If so how do I stop it?
March 9th, 2010My parents always argue now. Even about the smallest things. It makes me confused, angry and a little sad. They always argued angrily for 2 years. This year they argue even more. I try to stop them, but I don’t know how.
What do you think about teens saving themselves for marriage?
March 9th, 2010I’m a high school junior girl and am planning to save myself for marriage. I’ve never had a boyfriend and it probably has a lot to do with the fact that I don’t feel like most guys would want to date someone who wouldn’t want to do anything sexual…WHAT DO YOU THINK?
I'm don't want leave him, I'm need save my marriage. What can I do?
March 8th, 2010I’m had told my hb, I’m don’t leave him, I’m want save our marriage. But he reply me, if leave me I’ll happiness? Because he not love me. I’m can’t received this answer, because I’m very very love him. Who can tell me? How I save my marriage now? I’m can’t lose my hb!!!
Help me save my marriage. My wife wants to leave me.
March 7th, 2010I have been married for 21 years and back in 2006, my ex-girfriend contacted me through Classmates.com. I began to e-mail her and also talked to her on the phone (only 5 times in one month). We met for drinks once (she lives out of state). Nothing happened. I did not cheat on my wife, I love her very much, she is my world. I just had not seen my ex in a long time and it was great to catch up on old times. My wife found out about the e-mails but I did not tell her about the phone calls and meeting because it was strictly platonic. Everything occcured in late 2006 and when my wife found out about the e-mails, I immediately stopped all contact with her. Now, my wife has found out about the phone calls and the meeting and she wants to leave me. I feel horrible about conversing with my ex and I cannot convince my wife that I didn’t cheat on her. As a matter of fact, all I talked about with my ex is my wife and our son. My family is my world and I don’t know what to do to save my marriage. I would never do anything like this again and nothing I tell my wife seems to make her feel better about it. Any advice would be appreciated